Community & Belonging
Belonging here Matters
Belonging is more than a feeling—it’s the result of deliberate effort, and a thriving school community is defined by the strength of its connections. We embrace each other's differences and backgrounds and know that these differences add to the richness and depth of our students' overall learning experience.
This drives us to cultivate a community where students and families feel welcomed, valued, and appreciated. From the moment you step onto our campus, you’ll sense the empathy and respect that develop humane and constructive relationships at Shady Side.
Relationships Built on Our Guiding Principles
Every interaction at Shady Side Academy is guided by five foundational principles: Honesty, Kindness, Responsibility, Respect, and Safety. These values create a bedrock of trust and collaboration, ensuring that each member of our community—students and adults alike—feels seen, heard, and valued. They’re more than words—they’re lived experiences that shape how we learn and grow every day.
Shady Side is all about moving: physically, emotionally, and intellectually. As students make choices, they start to find out who they are and lay the foundation for who they will become. They embrace Shady Side’s guiding principles, become more self-aware, and begin to build the toolbox of skills they’ll carry with them for life.
Michelle MersonHead of Middle School
Our Philosophy
Shady Side Academy is a vibrant learning community that values intellectual curiosity, personal integrity, and diverse perspectives.
Our Community is a Source of Strength
Shady Side families represent over 123 zip codes, 14 states, and five countries, making SSA one of the most geographically and culturally diverse schools in the region. Additionally, roughly 35 languages are spoken in the homes of Shady Side families. By embracing this richness, we help students develop a balanced, informed worldview and foster the constructive relationships that are essential for leadership and innovation. At Shady Side, having a different view isn’t just celebrated—it’s central to our mission of shaping responsible citizens for a global society.
Building Confidence and Empathy, Cover to Cover
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All 16 boys in Shady Side’s inaugural class lived blocks from the one-room schoolhouse. Today, students come from across Pittsburgh, the U.S., and the world—Wexford, Squirrel Hill, Garfield, and Aliquippa; states like Texas, New Jersey, and California; and China, Columbia, India, and the United Kingdom. But such geographic diversity is more than a statistic; it ensures the manifold perspectives that deepen the teaching and learning that is unique to our community. From Butler to Beijing, our students grapple in age-appropriate ways with views they do not hold themselves as they build their capacity to engage and grow through civil, open discourse and the free expression of ideas.
Bart Griffith ’93Academy President
Empowering Civil Discourse
We prepare students not just for academic success but for meaningful engagement in an increasingly complex world. Through Community Norms—developed by our own Senior School students—we foster empathy, intentional listening, and thoughtful expression. These norms help our community navigate differences with courage and kindness, ensuring that every perspective is respected and every voice is heard. In classrooms, assemblies, and everyday conversations, students learn the skills they’ll need to bridge divides and build understanding.
Around the world in 80 minutes
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Our Community Norms
Respect Identities and Backgrounds
Approach conversations and interactions with empathy, and acknowledge that our experiences and backgrounds are unique and shape our beliefs.
Listen Intentionally
Listen wholeheartedly with positive intent to learn, understand, and gain commonality. Lean into discomfort and suspend judgment of yourself and others. Recognize that ideas are nuanced and complex.
Speak Thoughtfully
Speak from the “I” perspective; express yourself passionately and thoughtfully.
Practice self-care
Realize that the people around you are willing to help you and that reaching out for support is not a sign of weakness.
Finding Connection in Advisories
Every week, Shady Side students gather in small advisory groups, where they experience a sense of belonging and personal growth. These sessions are a chance for students to connect with peers and mentors, sharing thoughts on everything from managing academic pressures to navigating social dynamics. Advisory isn’t just about giving advice—it’s about building relationships that create a strong support network throughout their Shady Side journey. These moments cultivate trust, vulnerability, and camaraderie, making advisories a place where students are empowered to take risks and build the confidence they need to become well-rounded, engaged citizens.
Character that Builds Community
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Fostering a Balanced, Informed Worldview
Education is a transformative journey, one that empowers students to engage thoughtfully and courageously with the complexities of the world. Our teaching philosophy is grounded in creating an environment where intellectual curiosity, diverse perspectives, and respectful dialogue flourish—both in and outside the classroom. Here’s how we bring this approach to life every day.
Promoting Intellectual Diversity
At Shady Side, we recognize that diversity of thought is essential for meaningful learning. Our curriculum and co-curricular programs are designed to expose students to a broad spectrum of ideas and disciplines. Whether through historical analysis, philosophical inquiry, or interdisciplinary projects, students are challenged to consider alternative theories, weigh competing arguments, and appreciate the complexity of the human experience.
Global Learning and Exposure
At Shady Side Academy, we provide students with opportunities to engage deeply with global perspectives and diverse cultures. Programs like Model United Nations and World Affairs Council events immerse students in the complexities of international relations and diplomacy. By grappling with real-world issues and diverse viewpoints, students develop critical thinking skills, cross-cultural understanding, and the ability to navigate an interconnected world with empathy and insight. These experiences prepare them to become thoughtful, informed global citizens who are ready to lead with purpose.
A Commitment to Civil Discourse
We encourage students to explore and articulate their own ideas while respecting the views of others. Through thoughtful inquiry, open discussion, and an emphasis on constructive debate, we help students develop the confidence to express their opinions and engage with challenging material. From Harkness discussions to Socratic seminars and debate programs, our classrooms are spaces where intellectual risk-taking and questioning are not just allowed—they are celebrated.
Actions Speak Louder than Words
It isn’t enough to just talk about our balanced curriculum and how our students confront differences and bridge divides. Change requires action. Here’s what we’re doing, writing, and celebrating to make progress.